Does the Bible cover romantic love?

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By Chuck McCullough



 “OK — so it’s Valentine’s Day. I guess I need to know if the Bible talks about romantic love!” — Maria


There are a few “love stories”: Adam was pretty taken with Eve (although that cannot be too surprising since he had seen only animals prior to meeting her; Gen. 2:18-23). 

Isaac loved Rebekah; Jacob loved Rachel (Gen. 24:67; 29:18) Ruth fell for Boaz and vice versa (even though there is no kissing or hugging that we find in the story; Ruth 1-4). 

The quintessential portrait of romantic love is found in the PG-13 rated Song of Solomon. (Of course, this classic dialogue is seen by some decidedly dispassionate commentators as an allegory for the love between God and His chosen people — a perhaps more substantive though clearly less titillating interpretation.) 

The New Testament utilizes primarily two words that are translated “love.” Neither of them refers to “romantic love” in the obvious sense. (In fact, the Greek word for sensual or erotic love (eros) does not appear in the Bible.)

Filial love (Greek word, phileo) — affection between siblings and close friends —  appears in a few places (Jn. 20:2; 21:15-17). 

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